Getting
a chance to attend university is a significant milestone, however, it
can hold trials and hurdles in addition to having a decent social
lifestyle, managing finances and getting good grades.
Striking a balance
between these various angles of college life is quite challenging, but
not unattainable. While for some people schoolwork can often seem to
take over their lives (there is a lot more temptations to neglect your
studies too), it’s important to enjoy the years and truly turn them into
a time you can look back on fondly.
Nevertheless, there are no
one-size-fits-all tips on how to run your college life, but it requires a
right attitude through the 3 or 4 years (or more) for one to be
transformed from a mere college student into an adult with not only
education, but confidence, entrepreneurial/ job skills and a global
perspective.
The most important aspect about college life is the
education or academic life. In college, good grades require a different
approach than before. It is important taking classes that interest you,
going to class and spending hours studying becomes easier and at times
more enjoyable.
Read also: A LETTER TO ALL UNIVERSITY STUDENTS
Sometimes by circumstances, we are caught up into majors
we do not enjoy or that were not our priority, it is okay to consider
switching majors. It can be a scary thought, but after consulting a
right person or two, you are sure to make a wise decision.
When it comes
to studying, in high school you had to study a lot to get good grades,
well, in college you have to learn to study smart. It may be difficult
to earn good grades for one semester, but it’s even harder to maintain
them. However with deliberate effort and commitment, it’s possible to
maintain a high GPA throughout.
Attend classes, take notes, get a study group, pick courses
you like, befriend the lecturers and be active in class (don’t just ask
questions, come up with suggestions/ new ideas, answer questions and
participate in discussions).
Reach out to successful students and
tutorial assistants for further help whenever necessary. Make use of
model/ past papers and tests as well you need to place your focus where
you need to improve.
Earning straight A’s can be difficult, but good
grades is not only an A.
Manage well your time, stay organized, work to
understand course material and maintain a healthy lifestyle that allows
you time and energy to fulfill your academic requirements.
College is all about exploration and discovery, make time
within your schedule for interesting activities other than studying. Get
involved in academic associations, social clubs, sports, volunteer work
and even part time job (although this choice needs to be carefully
evaluated).
Many students think that these side activities will distract
them from studies because it takes an extra effort to balance them and
still get good grades (it is very possible), but surely they add meaning
to your college experience that education alone can never fulfill.
For
example, taking a part time job in a relevant field of study could count
as an experience when building a CV as much as it provides supplemental
income.
Studies also show that students who take part in
extra-curricular activities were found to have better leadership skills
and learnt how to relate better with their peers than those who didn’t.
Teamwork, problem solving, sense of responsibility, communication,
better social skills and critical thinking are just a few skills that
are developed when a student engages in co-curricular activities.
To
cement this, engagement in extracurricular activities has been known to
help in developing entrepreneurial capabilities and even employers check
what the student has to offer apart from their academics (leadership
positions, previous experiences however minor they are, and any other
meaningful engagements) that is where co-curricular activities come in.
Social life as a student, is equally important. The lack of
social life for anyone, especially a college student can result into
terrible loneliness and depression, possibly even lack of academic
motivation.
Take also activities that can help you increase your social
circle. The college and its surroundings provide the scope for a large
area of interests and pursuits. Put them in good to use in the college
and see your world grow.
Take part in competitions, talents shows,
debates, go off campus, explore the city and other opportunities that
may increase your friends circle and also to mark your place in the
college society.
Furthermore, most campuses have religious organizations
that cater to a wide variety of beliefs, it might be considerable to
visit them as a safe place to find inspiration and protection, or even
connecting with fellow believers.
It is good to know when to walk away. Meeting new people
does not always mean the birth of a friendship or clicking, it is okay
to move on and let new relationships forge at their own time and space.
Roommates don’t always work out as friends, even previous high school
friends may turn and become not as close. It is not be a big deal. There
shouldn’t also be a pressure of trying to fit in, or blending to the
living styles that cannot be catered for, without faking it.
One should
not be pressured to take on activities they are not used to, or they do
not find exciting, or for some reasons goes against their norms and
beliefs (a student also should not judge those who do) such as drinking,
going out or activities that one is not interested in.
Exploration and
finding one’s true self should not be at an expense of the proper values
and norms.
In the end when you find peace in all the engagements you
pursue, beware these not to distract you away from your original purpose
of getting a degree, be strategic in trying to get the best of both
worlds: studies and social life.
Ultimately, college life will teach you responsibility. You
will have to make tough choices, perhaps risky ones, it is advised to
take calculated risks and whatever the results, it is your fault, no one
else’s (that’s how cruel life can be).
Do things differently, go an
extra mile and your hard work will meet an opportunity.
Throughout time
at the university, one should constantly work on becoming well rounded
in all aspects. This includes a student’s intellectual, spiritual,
social, physical and moral capabilities.
There is a need to strike a
balance between all these aspects so as to make the most of the time
attaining your educational goals. Don’t lose yourself nor communication
with those dear to you in the midst of all new forged relationships
(which may as well last a semester or just after graduation).
Above all,
remember who you are, where you came from and what you are looking
forward to achieve.
This Article was written by:
Edigar Buberwa
Development Strategist
0716 116 667
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